Updated: May 18, 2019

Have you ever had a relationship go south? And when it did, did you do an after action review to see why it went south and what you might have done to cause it?

Relationship is everything. Anything that exists cannot, does not exist outside of a relationship with or to something else.

From the very beginning, at least from the only record we have, the only thing God deemed as “not good” or “not very good” was Adam’s aloneness.

We also know from the same record that even God Himself was not alone. He said, “Let US make a man creature in OUR image”.

But yet, it is in the working out of our personal, financial, social, political, and spiritual relationships that we experience the highest highs and the lowest lows in our lives.

And why is that?

Would you like to know? Would you REALLY like to know?

So would I!

If you think you know, click on the link below and let me know your thoughts.

In a later Blog, after I have received some responses, I am going to address this more completely and I will list some of your answers, anonymously, of course.


OH! REALLY? Hmm...

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